This new post has been written by My best friend to answer
Stephanie's blog:postcard_from_heaven_on_earth.typepad.com . I guessed it opened a "vrai" debate. this debate seemed to become deep to Ma meilleure amie's heart ( Merci Stephanie:) It is funny at the beginning, she was all hesitant and a la fin, she couldn't stop!!! C est Genial...
It is a really interesting post and more serious than i could be! I am too much French and maybe she is too English! that's why maybe we are "compatibles''
Enjoy and do me a favor, it is her first post ( so send her some comments, s il vous plait! )
MAIS SHUT!.....don't tell her that i wrote it:)
Hi Stephanie, i think u may well have opened up a fun debate ..well for the women of the blogs world at least. The men may run a mile!!! truth hurts right guys???!
Frenchieee is my best friend so i can safely say that she wasn't solely referring to the sexual aspects of relationships...u are right sex is only 1 aspect and perhaps not the most important but BOY if it aint there it aint worth continuing. For a relationship to work and be solid u need intellectual stimulation and physical, there are no questions there...
I think Frenchieee on behalf of all of us females is trying to figure these "Menschs" out. Why are they so confusing?! i mean they sit and complain that we are "naggers", that we are too demanding, but at the end of the day at we tell it how it is! we have a problem, we have issues we just come out and say it! men listen and want to move on without finding solution. As my friend says they are simple POULES MOUILLEES!!!
On a more serious note I think u bring up a super important point...we sound like SHRINKS!!! we women must like ourselves. it is hard! i am the first to admit it. I am more of the world of giving to others before taking care of myself. BUT with age and experience (am in a relationship!!! so i know!) you really do have to take a step back and ensure you get what you need. Your philosophy of women needing to believe in themselves and in their needs to better control their relationships is a great point and a must for a healthy relationship. Why should the men be the assertive ones!! oh by the way i am not a FEMINIST.Download odyssey_native_new_yorker.mp3