I hope you all had a nice new year's eve and you all have taken new resolutions for this year 2006!
Moi, i didn't this year! i realize each year we decide to do this, that but at the end of the day! RIEN! ABSOLUMENT RIEN! Therefore, i have decided i will go with the flow... hmmm i mean except maybe one thing: to love and be loved... oui, it sounds poetic but it is not so easy! it is probably the hardest thing! OYE VE!
Recently, i have realized or let's say my girlfriends made me realized that it is not LES FEMMES who have a problem with "being involved" or trying to find love!
IT is ONLY " LES MECS" =Guys
Yes, they want to be free but at the same time have several " friends with benefits" ( oui, it is a new expression, be ready for this one maybe because i am Francaise i didn't know it could exist) it means litterally a " copine with no strings attached" or in a different language " a booty call"....
Waou c est magnifique!!!
Yes, no hassle about calling back, no arguments, see the person when there are not with their buddies or they are not loaded with work. They always have excuses! DEs Cons= jerks! or maybe coward?!?
And we: Femmes have to always wait after them! UN REVE....
Recently, a girfriend of mine was really excited because she had met this Cute guy; they are always SO F....Cute at the beginning but wait for the end! Am i being negative? oui et non: i have facts!
If i tell you that she had to wait a month before seeing him again! OUI OUI! And hold on, she did her part! waou what a woman! She asked a friend of hers to get his phone number (c'mon in which world do we live in now? girls must chase for a number??! ) and then after leaving a few messages! Monsieur decided to call her back a week later, in the meantime no needs to say she was in Pieces... then he called back, they talked for an hour and he did acte 1 scene 1, let's meet up.
Ecoutez= listen up: they met indeed, although she had to wait in the cold, the snow for 1 hour: ( she got her a... frozen for A MEC! ) apparently, they missed each other because there were 2 subways exits! And like a Smart HOMME, he didn't think about taking her cellphone number with him!
Intelligent this man!
But ma copine being very smart she went to the spot where he was supposed to meet with a friend. Oh i forgot to mention, because "he was probably a big POULE MOUILLEE" ; he set up a date for 3 people! He needed a CANDLE holder...
She stayed with them! oui oui THEM. And after the drink, ( he offered... hey What a gentleman!!) she realized that he was supposed to have dinner with THE CANDLE HOLDER and his parents leaving her where???!ON THE BENCH!!! et oui, she was not invited...
N est ce pas merverlous?
but he was a gentleman til the end " he brought her back to the subway" this time, he found the way! And after hesitating "if he should stay or he should go" probably a "guilty trip" for a second and a half but it went away quickly because you know WHAT, HE LEFT................
Believe it or not, after this "threesome date' he has never called her back! not even to find out if she got home safe!
MAIS WHERE ARE THE MENSCHS?
Nowadays, finding a man is it really "difficile" but why so?
It makes me think about" the March of the Penguins" ( beautiful movie). The penguin is a Mensh! he find his mate stays with her ( meaning he doesn't date! ) and he takes care of the baby!
Even animals are more sensitive!! ok ok, i have generalized! but when you think about it, it is true!
Or maybe we should adopt " the shiddur attitude" like orthodox jews do: they meet 2 or 3 times ( before they meet, the woman and the man have checked " all the references regarding the person"... ok different universe!) and after a few dates, they decide if they want to get married! EH OUI, it is quick but apparently efficient! Although it is another debate!
But where is our parent's generation? they have succeeded in meeting someone they loved, the proof we are here and we are longing for love!! what was so different? Until now, i still don't understand!
What is the secret to meet a decent someone who wants what you want? Ah la la! On est pas sortie de l auberge= it is not easy!
However, i would like to finish on a positive note like my grandma says: " chaque marmite a son couvercle": each pot has its own cover" let's hope she is right....